Showing posts with label sapphire club. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sapphire club. Show all posts

Saturday, February 19, 2011

Clearing the Decks



Sometimes in writing, as with most anything in life, one must clear the decks of things that have stifled their creativity or taken much too much time away from the purpose of each day, which for a writer, is writing. 

Sometimes the job of clearing the decks is unpleasant, as we might have to put aside things that once meant the world to us – all in the name of productivity and yes, even sanity. 

I found myself overextended recently, committed to too many projects, with too little time to devote to each one. As I saw my time being imposed upon (self-inflicted to be sure), I decided something had to be done to prevent me from 1) burning out and 2) not producing my, again, self-imposed quota of words each day. No easy task, especially when the things I set aside had meant the world to me at one time.

Such is the way of the writing world, at least for me. I treasure every new association, every new learning experience, but, there are times when the learning casts the new association in a far different light and it is to advantage to "cut bait" as my father used to say, and seek healthier ground. 

I learned long ago to trust my instincts and to listen to the wise advice of those who know me best. With that, sometimes those little red flags that we'd all like to ignore, wave just furiously enough to remind us to stop, look and listen to our gut. The wise person does just that, despite what the heart might like us to do.
The projects I re-thought are insignificant compared to the peace of mind I have and the relief in my neck from the release of pent up tension. No more dreading the opening of my email or trudging through hours of nonsensical writing I wouldn't read under any other circumstance but obligation. A shall follow this little piece of advice - don't take on projects that will only prove to be a time suck. Lesson learned, duly noted.

I've set the agenda for this year, number one on the list is a series, Johan's Quest, which will be co-written with Bryl Tyne. I can't tell you how excited I am that he asked me to write it with him, as I respect and devour his work, and I don't mind admitting that I am a bit intimidated by his brilliance. However, in the end, I can only think about how the experience will make me a better writer and I'm all for that. 

There will also be a couple more Sapphire Club books, a couple of stories I've written and that need some Brita-izing before submission and even my first contemporary, written at the behest of Mr. Tyne. (I told you I was intimidated by him)

Yes, it will be a busy year, but in the end, I will be happy I cleared the decks for all the projects I am so anxious to dive into. Yes, Dad, cutting bait works.



Please visit my website for all the information on my Sapphire Club series - historical erotic romance.  


Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Brita Addams - Porn vs Erotic Romance


Porn vs. Erotic Romance

I've written this post, in different variations before, on my own blog, but thought it bore additional exposure. Since Noble Romance publishes erotic romance, I determined the Noble Author's blog to be just the right place for a reprise of this discussion.

Recently, I received a review, by a reader who felt Serenity's Dream was porn, followed by a gazillion XXX-rated designation. I was amazed that my reaction was so, shall we say, gobsmacked, to say the least.

As most adults of a certain age, I am aware of what constitutes porn and though I did wrote some rather hot sex scenes and granted the book has its share BDSM scenes (okay, more than its share, but that's what the Sapphire Club is all about), PORN it is not.

I've read my share of historical erotic romance, which is my particular reading of choice. I love plot, characters and an interesting story, along with tremendously hot sex. I wouldn't read books that just detailed a jumble of body parts finding their counterparts and humping, sucking or well, you get the idea. Nor would I write them, especially under a banner that clearly states, Erotic Romance.

After reading the review, which was positive, by the way, I feared that possibly, just possibly, I'd had the wrong idea when I wrote the Sapphire Club series or that Jill Noble, senior editor at Noble Romance, had in some way mislead me into believing I had indeed written a set of erotic romances. With those fears in mind, I did some research, again and decided to share my findings.

Porn is thoughtless screwing - the shortest path to the sofa, bed, floor or nearest wall. Now, certainly that can be hot, but when page after page is nothing but, with no story to tie the continual scenes together, you have - my friends – drum roll, please - PORN.

Never having read porn, I have only what my research has shown me by way of visual porn. There is no story, no plot, no characters, save the handsome, well-hung, long-haired, tattooed guy and the eager-to-please, not the least bit surprised when he's climbs through her kitchen window - chippy, who seems to understand the look in his eyes the moment she sees him.

She opens her mouth, the scene dissolves and the next thing you know, they're hanging from the foyer chandelier, banging away for a time well past human endurance. Fast forward, because frankly all that banging away begins to look the same after awhile, and low and behold, the next vignette is exactly the same, save for a different well-hung, long-haired tattooed guy and yet another eager-to-please, not the least bit surprised that he's climbed through her kitchen window, chippy.

Therefore, logically, I must conclude that when a book is billed as porn, they are much the same.
I'm here to say, that the erotic romances I've read and written, are far different. There is a story and plot, with characters you wish to see through to the end and ROMANCE. No doubt that is why publishers call it EROTIC ROMANCE, but I'm just guessing.

In erotic romance, you have sympathetic, endearing, plot driven main characters, that have emotions and aren't afraid to use them. Their lives are based on feelings that drive them to do the things they do, be it to please the one they love, place themselves in sexual situations with the one person who can fulfill their wildest fantasies or express themselves through sexual acts that might place them well out of their comfort zone.

Emotion and - wait for it - ROMANCE, drive an erotic romance.  Yes, there's a lot of sex, more than the usual romance, but not all romances with sex are erotic and because a book has a lot of sex, doesn't make it porn.

Body parts all a jumble drive porn - nothing more. The reason porn exists is sex, pure and simple. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with sex and in copious amounts. But any dummy can have sex. Caring, emotional, considerate people (characters) make an erotic romance and never the twain shall meet.

I am relieved to know, after further research, that I do indeed write character-driven, plot-driven stories that encompass the sexual beings my characters happen to be. My mother, God rest her soul, will continue to rest easy. Erotic romance is what I set out to write, and thankfully, I haven't lost my way.

Until next time,





Visit me at my Website/Blog, to learn more about the Sapphire Club series
The three books in the Sapphire Club series area available at Noble Romance Publishing.
Look for more Sapphire Club books later in 2011.

Chocolate, Tea and the Duchess is a menage, m/m/f. Serenity's Dream and Lord Decadent's Obsession are m/f. All books contain consensual BDSM, spanking, anal and oral sex.